Tag: travel

  • Day 2: Five Free Ways to Stop Living a Boring Life

    As a thirty-something, it’s easy to fall into the routine of daily life: get up, eat, work or take care of the kids, eat again, sleep, and repeat. But life doesn’t have to be monotonous. Let me share how I started making life more interesting—and how you can too.

    This year, my sister and I challenged ourselves to embrace more adventure. While I wouldn’t say my life was boring, I had become too accustomed to ending my days by binge-watching shows that didn’t add much value to my life. My sister, who’s always wanted to explore more of our home country, suggested we embark on small weekend adventures. I love to drive, so we decided to give it a try.

    Our first trip took us just over an hour south to Minnamurra Beach. Although we had visited Minnamurra Forest before, the beach was new to us. At 3:30 a.m., we set off in the dark to catch the sunrise and enjoy breakfast by the sea.

    The serene image of a beachside breakfast might sound idyllic, but it took effort to make it happen. Before this spontaneous road trip, we had to plan, research, and shop for portable gear like a butane gas stove and a small table. While prepping food and packing the car felt like a lot of work, the experience was worth every moment. Even getting lost along the way added to the adventure.

    Not everyone can take an early morning road trip, whether for financial, physical, or other reasons. But if you find yourself stuck in a mundane routine and want to add more color to your life, here are five free (or super cheap) ways to make life more exciting:

    1. Write Encouraging Notes or Messages

    Take a few moments to send handwritten letters, emails, or texts to friends, family, or acquaintances. Share a Bible verse, a prayer, or a simple message of encouragement. Proverbs 16:24 says, “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” Small acts of kindness like this can brighten someone’s day—and yours, too. When you sow seeds of encouragement, you may find that blessings multiply in your own life.

    2. Explore Your Local Area

    Step away from the screens and explore your neighborhood on foot or by bike. If you’re used to taking the same route, try a different one and see what new sights you discover. For nature lovers, this is a great time to reflect, pray, or express gratitude for the simple blessings in life, like the breath in your lungs. Spending time outdoors is not only refreshing but also a great way to connect with God’s creation.

    3. Learn Something New Online

    Instead of scrolling mindlessly through social media, use free resources like YouTube, online courses, or eBooks to learn a new skill or explore a topic you’re curious about. Recently, I watched a 15-minute lecture by an Oxford professor about C.S. Lewis’ life. I discovered that Lewis initially wanted to be a philosopher, not a professor of literature, and that he lost his faith before becoming one of the greatest Christian apologists of our time. Learning something new can bring fresh meaning and inspiration to your life.

    4. Invest in Relationships

    Call or visit a friend, family member, or church member. Building meaningful relationships doesn’t require money and often brings unexpected joy. Proverbs 17:17 says, “A friend loves at all times.” Consistency and showing up are key to deepening friendships. If you feel lonely or lack close connections, this is a perfect time to make new friends. Join community groups, churches, or walking clubs. It might take 20 seconds of courage to step out, but it could lead to lifelong friendships.

    5. Host a Game or Story Night

    Invite friends or family over for a simple game or story night. Everyone can bring their favorite games or share personal stories. This cost-free activity fosters laughter, bonding, and meaningful connections, making your home a hub of joy.

    Embrace the Life You’ve Been Given

    There’s nothing wrong with having downtime or living a quieter life, but remember that every breath you take is an opportunity to fulfill a greater purpose. Your life wasn’t meant to be mundane—it was meant to multiply, love, and give. Step out of your comfort zone, try something new, and watch your life transform.

    Keep growing in God.

    Anns